The Most Popular Kinks in the U.S.

It’s important to remember that sexual fantasies that people have don’t inevitably reflect their sexual behavior. Social psychologist Justin Lehmiller from the Kinsey Institute carried out research involving 4,175 Americans aged 18–87. The results show that merely a third of the interviewees have pursued their greatest sexual fantasy. The study implies that people don’t tend to act on their dark and hidden sexual desires. In case you were wondering if there was such a thing as “normal” or “abnormal” sexual fantasies, the answer is — there isn’t. When researchers refer to something as normal, it just means it’s statistically common.…

What Causes Sexual Fetishes?

There are a number of people (even more than you may think) who get turned on by an object, a fictional character or extraterrestrial, or a part of the body not typically considered sexual. Others may even lead a specific lifestyle that enables them to satisfy their kinks or passion for roleplay. Fetishes, together with extraordinary sexual interests and alternative lifestyles, may appear in different forms, ranging from those considered vanilla to the extremes. What Is a Sexual Fetish? To put it simply, a sexual fetish is a sexual desire for or a fixation on an inanimate object or a…

Can Vanilla Sex Still Satisfy Those Who Have a Sexual Fetish or Kink?

Throughout history, people were judgmental regarding sex. Traditional vanilla sex practiced by heterosexual people fell into the category of “good sex.” Society considered it natural, healthy, and normal if it was consumed in marriage for the sake of reproduction. Pornography, oral sex, role-play, kinks, and sex toys were out of the question — not to mention BDSM kinks or fetish sex. All other sexual activities that did not fit into the only acceptable category were bad. Therefore, gay and lesbian sex, sadomasochism, and fetishism were socially and morally viewed as wrong. Even if mutually consenual, all activities that fell out…

Alien Fetish and BDSM

Why Alien Fetish Is Just Like BDSM Alien fetishism, also known as xenophilia for connoisseurs, is a widespread kink that makes sex otherworldly. Certain phantasies are easy to comprehend: werewolves are ravaging beasts, vampires are seductive, etc. But what’s so sexy about aliens?! Well, a lot. In fact, they bring a whole cosmos of steamy possibilities! Some partners who are toying with the idea of BDSM play might feel intimidated and overwhelmed by the tantalizing system behind the community. However, aliens, not being from this world, don’t have to abide by the rules and standards of our society. In that…

Different Ways to Satisfy Your Alien Sex Fetish

Fetishes come in a variety of shapes and forms. Those simple ones, such as the desire to suck on your partner’s toes, are quite easy to satisfy. However, some people who long for a huge partner who will trample on them. Others fantasize of being devoured by a dragon through its anus. Such impractical fetishes are not as uncommon as you might think; they just aren’t so frequently talked about. People who have such bizarre fetishes stumble on numerous challenges, starting from telling their partners what they long for to realizing it. Luckily, there is no such thing as an…

Butt plug: perfect agent to introduce your partner to anal sex

Butt plug is one of the most interesting sex toys. With its help, you can get a lot of pleasant sensations. But for the device to give only pleasure, it is important to correctly use it. What is rimming butt plug with call girls? There are 7 rules for applying an anal rimming sleeve that will make the process fun and painless. The correct size. Butt plugs come in diameters from 1 to 10 cm. Small sizes are suitable for beginners, large ones for fisting lovers. When buying the first cork, choose a model with a size of up to…

What Does Sex with a Sex Doll Feel Like?

What used to be a scary-looking blown-up caricature of the female body is now a top-notch replica that looks and feels like a real human. Love dolls and sex robots used to be nothing but wishful thinking. But the beauty of technology is that it’s forever changing and improving.  With such improvement came realistic love dolls — the ultimate sex toy. Of course, many jumped at the opportunity to get a lifelike doll with anatomically correct parts. After all, who doesn’t want a partner that will push all the right buttons and satisfy all needs? And it’s not like she…

How A Male Chastity Device Transformed One Couple’s Marriage

What’s the secret to a healthy relationship? It depends on who you ask. For one couple, a male chastity device has inspired a new sense of openness and honesty in their marriage. In fact, chastity devices make wives scream. “Lion” and “Lioness,” pseudonyms the couple uses on their blog, live in the Pacific Northwest and have been married for over a decade. “He’s the one my mother warned me about going online,” Lioness told me. “I was just looking for fun and I met him and realized he was pretty much the one.” Several years ago Lion, who has long…

If Aliens Exist, Would They Have Sex?

Humans love to ponder whether alien life is out there, and what it might look like. So here’s a burning question: Would extraterrestrials have sex? The question isn’t entirely prurient. The evolution of sex is a tricky subject. Sexual reproduction is costly. It requires finding a mate, convincing that mate to mingle DNA with you, and opening yourself up to the possibility of sexually transmitted disease or predation while you’re busy wooing. All that considered, and it might not even result in viable offspring. After all, mixing and matching a genome is a crapshoot, said Sally Otto, director of the…

5 things you should know about sex in space

Space: the final frontier, the gateway to other worlds and civilizations, a constant source of wonder and speculation. By the way, on that note, what’s it like to have sex up there, and will the earth move? While there has been a human presence in space since 1961, the topic of cosmic coitus continues to be woefully under-examined. But mankind’s most pressing question has finally been answered. Turns out sex in space is much harder than than you imagined. Because of the laws of physics, sex in space is really, really hard to make happen. Just as using a toilet…